A Mom's Guide to Better Sleep

As busy moms, your mental task list is constantly running and that doesn't necessarily stop when you crawl into bed. The cruel thing is that you need a good night's sleep to keep up with it all and when you have small humans dictating your wake-up time (2 AM? 4 AM?) It's a bit challenging.

Since we all know that sleep is important for immune function, mood, energy, brain function, and long-term health, here are my top tips for moms to get better sleep and what you CAN control for your precious shut-eye.

8 Hours Before Bed: No More Caffeine☕

When you're powering through work, or taking care of the kids and hit that afternoon slump, I know it's so easy to reach for some afternoon coffee, but try to resist the urge. Ultimately It's messing up your sleep whether you realize it or not. Try some sparkling water, herbal tea, or better yet, a nutritious snack packed with protein, fat, and fiber which is really what your body is asking for. Bonus points for a quick walk around the block or some jumping jacks to get things moving.

3 Hours Before Bed: Avoid Heavy Meals & Alcohol 🍷

Heavy meals and alcohol disrupt digestion, hormone balance, blood sugar, and metabolism and make for a not-great night of sleep. Of course, once in a while is not a big deal, but if you're eating dinner right before bed or relying on a glass of wine every night before bed, it's time to make some shifts.

2 Hours Before Bed: Shut It Down 💻

Whether you work out of the house, manage the household, or BOTH, your mind is constantly running through your to-do list. If you feel like you have a lot of pending items, write them down. Studies show this allows people to let go more and know they can come back to their tasks in the morning. Close down your computer and step away.

1 Hour Before Bed: No More Screens 📵

YOU KNOW you aren't supposed to be scrolling Instagram in bed right? So why are you still doing it? Exposure to blue light from screens can suppress melatonin production, the hormone that helps you sleep. Put your phone on DND an hour before bedtime and find a new wind-down routine and I promise your sleep will improve.

Establish a consistent bedtime

Since you can't necessarily control when you get woken up, you can control when you go to bed. Going to bed earlier and around the same time, ideally before 10 PM is the best case scenario if you can manage it.

If you're out there every day momming, working, and doing it all, please make sure you're doing all you can to get the most restorative sleep possible!

Strength Training or Cardio?

Ah, the age-old debate. Look, they are both awesome, for so many reasons. I love myself a long run and the endorphins I get from a high-intensity spin class. Your heart deserves to be strong so doing movement that keeps it healthy is important, but if you're a mom, and trying to get back into fitness, you probably don't have a lot of time, so prioritizing strength training is a game changer - here's why.

1. Functional Strength for Everyday Tasks:

From lifting toddlers to carrying groceries, motherhood is a physically demanding job that rarely provides vacation days. When we say functional strength, we mean the ACTUAL strength to do the heavy and hard shit in your life, not just look good and flex in the mirror. Need to carry your kiddo kicking and screaming back from the zoo after they got overstimulated? Refuse to take 3 trips with groceries from the car? Kid demands you carry them on your shoulders or fling them around like a freaking monkey? Pick up some heavy stuff!

2. Improved Posture and Body Mechanics:

Pregnancy and childbirth take a TOLL on a woman's body, usually meaning hours bent over a tiny human and sleeping in weird positions, leading to weakened core muscles and poor posture. Strength training exercises, such as squats, deadlifts, and rows, help strengthen the muscles that support the spine and improve overall posture. Working on these muscles now means that you not only stand up straight now but you're also less likely to be a hunched-over old lady and don't tell me your back doesn't hurt right now. Want it to feel better? Strength training has got your back (literally).

3. Boosted Metabolism and Fat Loss:

While cardio may be the go-to for calorie burning, strength training offers unique metabolic benefits. By increasing lean muscle mass, strength training boosts metabolism, helping burn more calories both during and after workouts. Additionally, strength training promotes fat loss while preserving muscle mass - holla!

4. Bone Health and Longevity:

Look, it's completely unfair the stuff women have to deal with that men don't, and an increased risk of osteoporosis as you age is one of them. What's the answer? Strength training! Weight-bearing exercises like squats and lunges stimulate bone growth and enhance bone density, reducing the risk of fractures and osteoporosis later in life. By investing in bone health now, you're putting cash money into your mobility and bone bank for later.

5. Mental Health and Stress Relief:

This one is obvious, being a mom is lovely, wonderful, fulfilling, but also overstimulating, overwhelming, and stressful at times. Strength training offers more than just physical benefits—it's also a powerful tool for stress relief and mental well-being. The endorphins released during strength training act as natural mood lifters, helping combat stress, anxiety, and depression. If you're having a bad day, lifting some heavy stuff or throwing a slam ball does wonders.

6. Empowerment and Self-Confidence:

There is just something different about lifting heavy and what it does for your confidence and resilience. As moms see themselves getting stronger, both physically and mentally, they gain a newfound sense of empowerment. It also doesn't hurt to feel like Michelle Obama when you start seeing those arm #gains.

Does this mean you're off the hook entirely for cardio? Heck no! But if you only have time to prioritize one, and you're starting from scratch, body weight or exercises with slight resistance are the way to go. From there, try stacking in a daily walk to get things moving and you'll be surprised to see how much more energy you have and how much better you feel.

Need more inspiration? Hit me up for a custom workout plan!

Struggling With Sticking to Your Goals?

As moms, it's really easy to put everyone else's needs above yours, or you just simply can't find the mental space for new habits, no matter how simple they seem.

Are you stuck in the mindset that you’ll start tomorrow or next week? 

Do you start with big changes and get overwhelmed and stop? 

Do you struggle to make lasting changes when it comes to your wellness goals? 

How many times have you set a New Year's resolution to go to the gym every day? Or start a new diet like Whole 30 only to fall off 4 days in? This is not your fault, these approaches are NOT SUSTAINABLE. Life is already tiring, challenging, and chaotic enough, don't make this harder on yourself.

Ready to try something better? I bet no matter how busy you are, you have 2 minutes.

This approach helps you take small steps toward a bigger goal and work toward lasting change. How does it work?

• The 2-Minute Rule, popularized by James Clear in his book "Atomic Habits," emphasizes starting small and breaking down habits into manageable two-minute tasks.

• By focusing on tiny actions that take just a few minutes to complete, we can overcome the inertia of starting and build momentum toward our goals.

What would this look like, for real?

• Want to practice mindful eating? Take ONE deep breath when you sit down, before you start eating

• Trying to eat more fruits and veggies? Buy pre-cut options

• Ready to start exercising more? Try throwing on your shoes and walking around the block once a day

• Need more flexibility? Do some stretches when standing at the stove or in a meeting

• Want to drink more water? Keep a class next to your bed

Don't roll your eyes, I can hear it through the computer. These small changes might not seem like they aren't going to get you anywhere, but they will, and here's why.

• This approach is flexible, you can decide what will help you get towards your goals and change it as needed. Have 5 minutes today? Walk a bit farther, do some yoga poses, and gradually work your way up.

• It removes a barrier - you have 2 minutes each day and you know it. It stops you from continuously thinking that you'll try again or start tomorrow. Start now, start small, and keep going.

• It creates a sense of achievement - we all like crossing things off our list. These things add up and the more you do them, the more you'll believe you can do them and keep going.

Behavior change precedes identity change because our actions shape our sense of self. When we consistently engage in new behaviors, whether they're related to wellness, productivity, or any other aspect of our lives, we start to see ourselves differently. Over time, these actions become habits, and as they become ingrained in our daily routines, they reinforce a new identity aligned with those behaviors and it gets easier every day to do these things.

If your goal is to eat more healthy food, consistently choosing healthier foods transforms your view of yourself from someone who "tries to eat healthy" to someone who simply "is a healthy eater."

What habits are you working towards this year? Do you want even more accountability? Set up a free call today to chat about how I can help you set realistic goals and stick to them.